Category: Devotionals

  • Generous Living

    Generous Living

    I am overwhelmed with how beautifully supportive everyone has been about our House Hunters episode!  Thank you all for watching!!! The last couple of weeks we’ve had a mini-series at church on generosity; it has been so good.  The whole idea of generosity is nothing new to this lifelong church going girl, but it’s never…

  • The Reason

    The Reason

    The air in the room was cold, not quite cold enough to make clouds of her breath, but cold enough for her nose to lose its feeling.   She couldn’t sleep, there was no use trying.  Tomorrow was Christmas and she’d counted down the days since, well, since a lot of days ago.  The excitement she…

  • He is Bigger

    He is Bigger

    I remember when I got serious about praying to overcome fear, I was afraid to pray about it. How about that for irony? I wanted to overcome fear, but I was afraid to overcome fear. Go figure. It took some time to identify what I was dealing with; fear can disguise itself in so many…

  • What Matters Most

    What Matters Most

    I woke up Sunday morning, after a rough night of little sleep, not feeling like going to church. I am a big believer in going to church because it lifts my spirits and centers me with teaching from God’s word to face the week. Not this day, though. This day I wanted to stay home…

  • Influence

    Influence

    The power of influence. To me, influence is when the people in your life want to do the things you suggest or teach. I also think influence happens in the home, how we are treated by those we love, it affects our behavior. We are influenced in many ways: TV shows, books, perfect strangers, conversations,…

  • It’s Not Fair

    It’s Not Fair

    This has been one of those days where I had to practice what I’ve been preaching. The house has been a flurry of life and love lately and suddenly I myself all alone today. So, I got dressed in something that made me feel cute and I made a mental list of my favorite things…

  • Let’s do the Work

    Let’s do the Work

    At some point in our lives we’re forced to face the depths of our hearts and emotions. Usually there’s a catalyst that forces us to this place, something like mid-life crisis or the crushing pain of loss. When we get to this vulnerable place of self-reflection, we learn a lot about ourselves and why we…

  • Carry On

    Carry On

    I was sitting by the pool in a beautiful place wondering what I was feeling. I was so happy to be on this trip, and I couldn’t have asked for a better destination or company. What was making me feel so, so…what? What was it? Uncomfortable. The word hit hard, and it resonated. I felt…

  • A Chance to Practice What I Preach

    A Chance to Practice What I Preach

    I got the chance to practice what I’ve been preaching a couple of mornings ago. You see, I was rushing out the door to a gym class and I was already going to be either right on time or late, depending on the traffic. I was a tad bit irritated when I got to the…

  • A Challenge

    A Challenge

    Recently I gave myself a challenge. My goal? To talk to as many strangers as possible and give them the gift of a compliment. Research has shown that even if you feel completely awkward or cheesy, when someone hears a compliment (that you’ve given them), they are immediately a little bit happier. So, I decided…

  • Little by Little

    Little by Little

    I’ve been trying to get out of my comfort zone lately. I really like my comfort zone, ya know?!. But I know growth makes me happier. So, I’ve been doing things that make me feel vulnerable so that I’ll have to deal with that fragile feeling and hopefully become more willing to try new things.…

  • Hummingbirds

    Hummingbirds

    I bought a hummingbird feeder. I’ve always wanted one, and I finally decided to turn my wishing into action. I brought it home, made a homemade sugar and water mixture then my husband hung it off the back of the house. I was (am) so excited about it! It didn’t take long before I started…

  • On purpose

    On purpose

    Sometimes I think I expect happiness to enter my life without invitation and fill my days. I’m learning that consistent happiness is intentional. You know, you can be “okay” and never realize that you’re not very happy. It can be so subtle. One day you notice that things around you seem gray. And you wonder…

  • Sunny Days

    I don’t know where you live, but where I am the sky was AMAZING today! Powder blue with cotton ball shaped clouds and a slight breeze; the temperature was warm, but the breeze helped with that. A perfect day to be outside. So that’s what I did. And what is it about time under the…

  • Happy

    Happy

    I’ve been working on keeping my mind on things that make me happy. It’s way too easy to notice the negative and give it too much head space. I told you guys in a previous post that happiness is not just a goal, it’s a continuum; it’s harder to explain than you might think. I…

  • Be Intentional

    This whole idea of intentional happiness is on my heart big time! I’ve been making it really personal lately, finding small meaningful things that will increase my happiness, even just a little. It’s amazing when you monitor your thoughts and act purposefully in ways that will help you feel good, how much lighter you feel…

  • Nourishing My Soul

    Nourishing My Soul

    We planted butterfly bushes on the side of our house recently; I am so excited about what this means…butterflies!! As a matter of fact, as I was pulling out of the garage a few days ago, I saw a big yellow one fluttering right above one of the purple blooms. I had to stop and…

  • Happiness to Gain

    Happiness to Gain

    I love human behavior. I just love it. I love understanding why we do the things we do; I love learning about social ques and how to be happier. I could go on and on… It’s my thing. I’m only just discovering how much I love it, and I plan to dig deeper into this…

  • Definitely Start

    Definitely Start

    I saw blue lights flashing up ahead as I drove home this morning. I always pay attention to blue lights because you never know what it may mean: lane closure, red light not working, someone getting a ticket, construction, or any number of things. I slowed down, made sure I was under the speed limit…

  • Do the Hard Thing

    Do the Hard Thing

    The picture today is my gym inspiration and oldest son. This morning, I woke up NOT in the mood to go to the gym or do anything really. I gave myself multiple excuses, which sounded like good reasons, to stay home and, I don’t know, not do anything hard. Drinking coffee and sitting on the…

  • Relentless Goodness

    Relentless Goodness

    She stood in worship, clapping her hands in joy as the lyrics of the song pierced her very soul.  If you asked her what she felt most in that moment, she would have been hard pressed to give an answer.  How about everything? How about all the emotions:  happy, grateful, contemplative, reverent, hopeful, fearful, overwhelmed,…

  • Over the Mountains

    Over the Mountains

    I kept checking the weather app desperate for something to change.  But, no matter how many times I closed and opened the app, no matter how many times I wished for a different outcome, it was always the same.  The chance of rain was high, really high, and I knew our drive was going to…

  • Running out of rain

    Running out of rain

    I think I’ve told you before that I am a nervous flyer.  Yes, my husband is a pilot, but unfortunately his love of being thousands of feet in the air hasn’t transferred to me.  Interestingly, I wasn’t afraid of flying when I was young, I enjoyed it.  But, somewhere along the way a fear began…

  • The Dream

    The Dream

    Happy Mother’s Day! My mother will celebrate from the beauty of heaven as she has for the last nine years.   There’s not a day that goes by I don’t think of her.  So many of you can relate.  We find ourselves in the awkward place of celebrating being a mother but not having a mother…

  • Let’s Make it a Happy New Year!

    I can’t believe we’re about to celebrate the beginning of a new year!  What happened to 2021?  I remember when this year began, I was so ready for a fresh start, so hopeful for something easier.  I’m not sure I would call the last year easier, would you?  It felt like more of the same,…

  • Let’s Do Good!

    Let’s Do Good!

    I have been OVERWHELMED with encouragement and love from so many of you! 🙏🏻 I’m SO glad you’re enjoying the story! 👏🏻 I honestly believe the Lord gave it to me, every single word. And because the story belongs to Him, I’m donating every single dollar earned from sales to missions. I’m praying and watchful…

  • God Knows Best

    Stacey rolled over and looked at the alarm clock.  It was dated, but had dutifully illuminated the time day and night since she could remember.  She’d had the thing since she was a young girl and for reasons she couldn’t explain, she didn’t have the heart to get rid of it.  She’d carried it from…

  • Drifting

    I was holding onto the seat so hard my knuckles were white.  This happens more often than I’d like to confess and I can’t decide if it’s because I’m a back seat driver or if my husband thinks he’s trying out for the Daytona 500.  You should see his face when he’s merging onto the…

  • “What Is” Versus “What If”

    I went to Bible study for the first time in a while today.  We were masked up and social distanced, but it was still so good to be together in a room with other ladies seeking a word from the Lord.  I don’t think I’ll ever take “gatherings” for granted again.  The group was a…

  • It’s That Time Again

    I’m sitting on the couch with sunshine pouring in through the windows.  It’s a bit chilly out, but the blue sky might deceive a person into believing it’s warm enough for a swim.  The days are starting to get longer now that Winter Solstice has passed; a sign that spring is not far away.  I…

  • History

    History

    I’m sitting in my living room staring out the sliding glass door at an overcast day, willing myself not to turn on the news.  It’s so tempting to watch and speculate about what could happen next. I’ve had a lot of time to think lately.  We all have, what with the quarantine and all.  Sometimes…

  • Gratitude

    Gratitude

    It snowed this morning.  For this girl from the Deep South who’s only seen snow maybe twice in the last thirteen years, it was a big deal.  My dog and I played in the back yard while the white flakes peppered our hair.  Such a fun way to start the day.  It made me feel…

  • If I’m Being Honest…

    If I’m Being Honest…

    It’s been a bit since I wrote anything on my blog. It took me a minute to figure out why I was procrastinating. I used to love to write to all of you. Sharing life and swapping secrets was one of my favorite things. Then, not suddenly, but definitely, the joy of writing here began…

  • 90 Seconds of Light: Yoga

    90 Seconds of Light: Yoga

    I went to yoga today for the first time in a while.  Turns out turning yourself into a human pretzel is good for body and soul. As I was standing on my head, well, practically, I congratulated myself for being there. You see, this move has exposed something. I’m not brave. Not like I used to…

  • Open Heart

    Open Heart

    I love surprises. Well, I love the kind that involve flowers and/or travel. Honestly, it doesn’t have to cost money.  A good surprise could be cleaning out my car or washing the dishes before I can get to them. Or chocolate, always chocolate. What I don’t like are surprises that involve a hospital stay. And…

  • Priceless

    Priceless

    This week has been an emotional roller coaster ride.  It seems like I’ve been on this “ride” for a long time, anybody know how to get off? I honestly feel since my mom was diagnosed with the disease that took her life, I haven’t been able to catch my breath.  One life-changing event after another…

  • Change and a Cup of Coffee

    Change and a Cup of Coffee

      I am not highly motivational or inspirational. BUT, I DO long for those around me to grow…in every way. I’m an encourager, maybe?? I’ve encouraged my kids their whole lives to follow their dreams. I want to see those around me stand on the edge of the unknown and step off into it. But,…

  • The Other Side

    The Other Side

    Seems my theme this Christmas season is joy. Joy left me a few years ago and I wondered if it would ever return.  I spent a lot of 2018 doing the hard work of recovery from devastating grief. Grief has been my banner for four years…but not anymore. I’ve learned a lot over the last…

  • Stretched

    Stretched

    It was while I was in puppy pose a thought hit me. These last years of my life have been filled with days and months of stretching. Stretching what, you wonder? Well, unlike the puppy pose, which any yoga amateur (like me) would appreciate. The kind of stretching the Lord is doing in my life…

  • Living Life One Hundred Percent

    Living Life One Hundred Percent

    Last time I wrote, I wrote to those who know someone who’s suffered deep, personal loss. I asked you to be patient with us and allow us plenty of time to recover. Coming back from deep grief is a LONG, painful road.   Recovery takes lots of time, but we eventually find healing and learn to…

  • The Sting of Rejection

    Recently I walked through our local Wal-Mart and felt the sting of undeniable rejection from someone who used to be a friend.  It was painful.  Kind of like an ant bite to your soul, it burns, then leaves a whelp and keeps you up itching throughout the night.  Momma used to recommend ammonia to take…

  • Back Porch Revival (conclusion)

    Back Porch Revival (conclusion)

    Often I go out onto my back porch to have devotions or to pray.  There’s nothing special about it really.  It’s screened in, but we have to leave the sliding door open so the dogs can get out to the yard when needed.  Flying insects that find themselves trapped in my screened in haven from…

  • Back Porch Revival

    Back Porch Revival

    A friend of mine has introduced me to the wonderful world of podcasts.   I know, I can see your eyes grow wide in my mind’s eye as you read this.  Podcasts have been around forever, or so I’ve heard.  I’ve been slightly aware of them for quite some time, but not knowing who in the…

  • Stronger Than You Think

    Stronger Than You Think

    The sun was hanging by a string in the bright blue sky, brilliantly shining down on the Alabama red clay that hugged the two lane highway.  The car was silent and I could hear the tires protest as they pressed into the hot pavement.  My mind was a wander, filled with events from recent days. …

  • Waiting

    Waiting

    I think I’m having a midlife crisis, or maybe I’m just a bit crazy, or maybe both.  Nothing seems to satisfy this longing in my heart.  This emptiness.  For the first time since I can remember my calendar is not busting at the seams with activity and no one is expecting me to be anywhere. …

  • Walking With a Limp

    Walking With a Limp

    I’ve been training for a half marathon for quite a while now and last weekend was when all of my training was put to the test.  In case you’re not sure, a half marathon is 13.1 miles.  Yes, you read that correctly.  Why would anyone on earth want to run that far when you can…

  • Joy Stealers

    Joy Stealers

    Joy stealers. They’re real. Since I talked to you last week, I have had some serious frustrations come galloping into my life in an attempt to trample anything that resembles joy.  If you believe in karma, you might think shouting my promise of joy for all to hear set off a series of cataclysmic happenings…

  • What Matters Most

    What Matters Most

    If I close my eyes right now I can see the twinkle and beauty of Christmas in my imagination even though my surroundings aren’t quite as festive as I’d like at the moment.  If I was at work there would be a poinsettia on the counter behind me along with a beautiful angel donated by…

  • Holding Pattern

    Holding Pattern

    Many of you already know my husband flies airplanes.  He’s always telling us stories about the folks he flies with, the passenger and the fellow employees alike.   Sometimes it’s pretty funny stuff and other times it’s sobering; all in all it’s quite entertaining.  We look forward to the tales he spins when he arrives home…

  • Uncomfortable

    Uncomfortable

    The morning sun had not shown its face as I rolled over denying in my mind what I knew to be true.  It was time to get up. I pressed snooze more than once but the alarm clock continued to shout I was eventually going to have to face this day.  I was so comfortable…